Sinking Feeling? - Page 3

Trilby · 10-31-2005, 08:15 AM

I don't want to be a downer--but it's sooooooooo easy to rebound if you're a man! Lookit---he's already dating! Don't get me wrong, I'm glad for the tyke, but--well, she's dating, too, isn't she? I'm just jealous. I can't help but feel I've past my own 'sell-by' date. It makes me feel: #1) mad, and #2) free. I'm not good at conflicting emotions. (I know, I know--neurosis is the inability to tolerate ambiguity--enough already!)
Anyway---JUST GO SLOW!

laebedahs · 10-31-2005, 08:27 AM

Yes, yes. I'm trying my best to go slow.

Trilby · 10-31-2005, 08:45 AM

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Originally Posted by laebedahs

Yes, yes. I'm trying my best to go slow.

You've already

haven't you?

Don't lie.

laebedahs · 10-31-2005, 09:39 AM

Haha no. I haven't even kissed her yet. But I felt fine not doing that. She's a nice girl, I had a great time. If it's one thing that my marriage has taught me, you take it too fast, you end up having a relationship based on sex, which is really no relationship at all. :p

Edit: not so much my marriage but prior to that. It was sex, all the freakin' time (3-4 times per day, 3-4 days out of the week).

Iggy · 11-26-2005, 03:13 PM

I came in kinda late, but how is everything going?

xoxoxoBruce · 12-20-2005, 05:11 AM

Yeah, who shot J.R.?
When are we going to hear the end..... or at least the next chapter.... of this adventure?
You could have been married and divorced by now.

laebedahs · 01-11-2006, 09:28 PM

An update since I've been gone a while. After that first date, she didn't want to go out again. The reason being is I told her I have a daughter.

capnhowdy · 01-12-2006, 07:38 AM

works nearly every time. You should have sacked her before you told her.

Clodfobble · 01-12-2006, 01:21 PM

Uh, yeah... because the only thing that will drive away new dates faster than "I have a daughter" is "I have two daughters from different women."

laebedahs · 01-14-2006, 09:54 PM

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Originally Posted by capnhowdy

works nearly every time. You should have sacked her before you told her.

I try not to worry about superficial things like being the dumper instead of the dumpee. Besides, it was only one date.

mrnoodle · 01-17-2006, 04:34 PM

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Originally Posted by laebedahs

An update since I've been gone a while. After that first date, she didn't want to go out again. The reason being is I told her I have a daughter.

You have a thing for immature women, don't you?

kind of kidding - I'm a shit magnet, too. No offense.

laebedahs · 01-17-2006, 06:23 PM

Well, I am 22, mrnoodle. Most women my age aren't mature by any means.

Oh, and the update on the divorce: we filed this past Friday. Yes, Friday the 13th.

10-31-2005, 08:15 AM	#31
Trilby Slattern of the Swail Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 15,654	I don't want to be a downer--but it's sooooooooo easy to rebound if you're a man! Lookit---he's already dating! Don't get me wrong, I'm glad for the tyke, but--well, she's dating, too, isn't she? I'm just jealous. I can't help but feel I've past my own 'sell-by' date. It makes me feel: #1) mad, and #2) free. I'm not good at conflicting emotions. (I know, I know--neurosis is the inability to tolerate ambiguity--enough already!) Anyway---JUST GO SLOW! __________________ In Barrie's play and novel, the roles of fairies are brief: they are allies to the Lost Boys, the source of fairy dust and ...They are portrayed as dangerous, whimsical and extremely clever but quite hedonistic. "Shall I give you a kiss?" Peter asked and, jerking an acorn button off his coat, solemnly presented it to her. —James Barrie Wimminfolk they be tricksy. - ZenGum

10-31-2005, 09:39 AM	#34
laebedahs Abecedarian Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 172	Haha no. I haven't even kissed her yet. But I felt fine not doing that. She's a nice girl, I had a great time. If it's one thing that my marriage has taught me, you take it too fast, you end up having a relationship based on sex, which is really no relationship at all. :p Edit: not so much my marriage but prior to that. It was sex, all the freakin' time (3-4 times per day, 3-4 days out of the week). Last edited by laebedahs; 10-31-2005 at 02:37 PM.

12-20-2005, 05:11 AM	#36
xoxoxoBruce The future is unwritten Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 71,105	Yeah, who shot J.R.? When are we going to hear the end..... or at least the next chapter.... of this adventure? You could have been married and divorced by now. __________________ The descent of man ~ Nixon, Friedman, Reagan, Trump.

01-12-2006, 07:38 AM	#38
capnhowdy Blatantly Homosapien Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 6,200	works nearly every time. You should have sacked her before you told her. __________________ Please type slowly. I can't read very fast............... and no holy water, please.

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10-31-2005, 08:27 AM	#32
laebedahs Abecedarian Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 172	Yes, yes. I'm trying my best to go slow.

11-26-2005, 03:13 PM	#35
Iggy Back and ready to tart up the place Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Kansas Posts: 850	I came in kinda late, but how is everything going?

01-11-2006, 09:28 PM	#37
laebedahs Abecedarian Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 172	An update since I've been gone a while. After that first date, she didn't want to go out again. The reason being is I told her I have a daughter.

01-12-2006, 01:21 PM	#39
Clodfobble UNDER CONDITIONAL MITIGATION Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Austin, TX Posts: 20,012	Uh, yeah... because the only thing that will drive away new dates faster than "I have a daughter" is "I have two daughters from different women."

01-17-2006, 06:23 PM	#42
laebedahs Abecedarian Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 172	Well, I am 22, mrnoodle. Most women my age aren't mature by any means. Oh, and the update on the divorce: we filed this past Friday. Yes, Friday the 13th.

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