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Turns out my CRS is a symptom of TMB.
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Plaid?
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Turns out my CRS is a symptom of TMB.
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If you're talking about playing games, then I agree. But I do think there are ways to tell.
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I hear them call the tide
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I had no idea what I wanted in a partner until I met beest. I never tested him. 22 years together.
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20 years with my partner. No test either. I just knew.
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Radical Centrist
Join Date: Jan 2001
Location: Cottage of Prussia
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I don't think we know what we really want. I didn't until J came and made me feel good in a certain way. No not that way. Although she does.
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Старый сержант
Join Date: Nov 2007
Location: NC, dreaming of large Russian women.
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Not everything can be quantified and qualified. I think it is a symptom of our society and culture today, everything can be quantified, reduced, decide upon and controlled. I agree with the others here that this testing for a relationship is not my style. Been married to Mrs. Joe for 18+ years now. Would not have missed it for the world. I wold say that the test is ongoing. Heck it's not even a test, it's more like a course. Yea, the course is still in session.
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Touring the facilities
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Wasn't there a thread once about reducing compatibility to numbers? It had to be back in 2003-2004. anyone remember?
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barely disguised asshole, keeper of all that is holy.
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Anyone mentioned that what you want or believe is important at this particular moment in your life may/may not be relevant in 10, 20, 30 years? As you age your perspective, wants, needs... all change as do theirs. For example. the physical characteristics which may be important when 20-ish will be FAR LESS of a factor as one ages. Whereas the emotional, spiritual and ethical traits will be far more important.
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I love it when a plan comes together.
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To shreds, you say?
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#4 humble fail.
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I love it when a plan comes together.
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lobber of scimitars
Join Date: Jul 2001
Location: Phila Burbs
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I've found some success with the Political Compass, but I recognize it's not for everyone.
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Goon Squad Leader
Join Date: Nov 2004
Location: Seattle
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