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Old 03-28-2011, 10:21 AM   #1
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But the whole thing bout "zero tolerance" is the "why" is irrelevant. ...
Policies (or parts thereof in this case) may just be guidelines that allow for judgment calls based upon the circumstances, they're not always definitive. Consider a child who gets into a disagreement with a teacher (perhaps over what the child should be concentrating on during class) and is admonished; then, the child sits down and draws a picture of a gun knowing full well the teacher is going to see it. That's harassment; but, the teacher may find it difficult to prove because the child, well, "he is a boy" and that's what boys do. Sometimes pictures are innocent; but, sometimes they're indications of something else going on. Parents can be the last to acknowledge that since their children's actions reflect opon them. Keep an open mind.
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... Drawing a picture of gun? HTF is that a threat to the safety of any other student?
No brainer: It can be an early indicator of something that may escalate into harm to others; or, self-inflicted harm. You can't advocate teaching other kids to just shrug it off in today's proactive environment of school violence awareness without coming off as being egocentric.
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Old 03-27-2011, 09:09 PM   #2
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Old 03-27-2011, 09:26 PM   #3
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thanks, I'm headed that way with the teacher. I'm currently awaiting his response on the drawing weapios while studying civil war thing (which they just did...) -he didn't seem to have a problem with pictures of guns then....

I suspect it's really about drawing when he should be doing something else, and it's got to a point where the something else is irrelevant to my kid so he argues that and wins. teacher saves face with "inappropriate subject matter". I could be wrong, but I bet I'm not. That's what you get when you Open School. Sometimes the kids are going to be smarter than the teachers in some respects. In "regular" schooling that is supressed for the "greater good". At Open School, teachers get schooled sometimes
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Old 03-27-2011, 11:32 PM   #4
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Lordy. Ya'll just need to move down south where folks have more common sense about weapons. When my son did a report on the War of Northern Aggression, he gave a musket firing demo with a 9 count load. He also demonstrated fix bayonets
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Old 03-27-2011, 11:55 PM   #5
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The War of Northern Aggression?

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Old 03-28-2011, 03:22 AM   #6
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Sorry, Sarge, but naming rights go to the winners.

Except "Operation Enduring Freedom". But that isn't a name, it's just
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Old 03-28-2011, 08:55 AM   #7
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Sorry, Sarge, but naming rights go to the winners.

Except "Operation Enduring Freedom". But that isn't a name, it's just
Ha! But it sounds so warm and fuzzy!

Wagging the dog.
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Old 03-28-2011, 09:10 AM   #8
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Which one's the tranny?

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Old 03-28-2011, 11:12 AM   #9
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Old 03-28-2011, 10:13 PM   #10
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I was mostly surprised because he's been in school 5 years. he's a boy. He draws guns. He's not alone. How is this the first time I've heard it's not OK? Being fair, he's 4th grade but his drawing level is Kindergarten. And he knows it. So now he labels his drawings. Maybe they just didn't know he was drawing guns before?
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Old 03-28-2011, 10:14 PM   #11
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(they still don't look like guns, ffs)
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Old 03-28-2011, 10:28 PM   #12
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I have zero tolerance for zero tolerance policies. Zero tolerance policies themselves are the common-sense exception which makes this zero tolerance policy OK.
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