Dominoes - Page 2

Ibby · 10-19-2006, 12:10 AM

Maybe I'm just an exception, but mixed-race doesnt bother me in the slightest. In fact, my girlfriend is half-mexican, which would make my kids, if it gets to that point and we actually have any, quarter mexican. And I dont care.

KinkyVixen · 10-19-2006, 12:28 AM

I thought it bothered me...before I realized who I was, and the things that were important to me. The color of one's skin scrapes the bottom of my list. More importantly are the things they believe and the way they behave, etc...
The heart wants what the heart wants...regardless of color, or a lot of other things, at least for me.
I think it would be silly to deny myself something because i'm hung up on something as trivial as a color...

mrnoodle · 10-19-2006, 12:29 AM

I have a thing for certain races, but not all of them are white. James Bond liked em, so I liked em too. If a partner happens to be black, they must like metal. Or tolerate it. It does, in fact, happen.

Pretty much single rule for dating is: You see this? This is what you will be dating. If you see room for improvement, I will of course engage wiht you in frank but respectful dialogue re: that improvement. On date one, we should be only complimentint one another. or we will be booted from the date. Same goes for several more dates, wherein we pretend to be the most open minded, amaYzing hearts we have ever met. Then we start "dating" dating.

This phase is the last in which you may make improvements to me. Afterwards, you drive off the lot, and I'm yours. Changes can be made OCCasionally to haircut, but not the haircut you saw on Guiding Light. It must be rock like, or able to become that way with minimal effort.

1. No , I won't quit the band.
2. No, I won't move to the town your mothr lives in, unless it's within 100 miles.
3. I'm not going to move in with you until we're married. That's how I was raised, and the only downside is that people will point and laugh. So you gotta be good with that.
4. If that's too hard, we can sneak around for sex occassionally, but we must repent for not giving strong enough effort to our moral desire to be pure.
5. That's only if I luck into a virgin. shhh.

And for the 3rd time, I find myself at the end of a post that I don't remember the content.

But anyway, if they're the right girl/boy for you, you should not be denied love becasue of the pointing and snorting of low class babboons.

10-19-2006, 12:42 AM

Très ...intéressant , Monsieur .

xoxoxoBruce · 10-19-2006, 09:49 AM

Perhaps you want the very best for your grandchildren, and being realistic, know life and success might be easier for white children.

Aliantha · 10-20-2006, 03:24 AM

Nothing gained is worth having unless it takes a bit of blood, some sweat and a few tears.

Shawnee123 · 10-20-2006, 08:55 AM

Guess who's coming to the French Caribbean for dinner?

10-20-2006, 10:55 AM

I would be more than happy to have a black grandchild.
You sound like the bigot to me Bud... it is time to move-on.

That goes both ways BTW. I was dating a lovely girl who was told not to because of my race. It is equally a bad, bigoted, racist and everything else people like to call "us"... all races are. It's just ok to say it about Caucasians. I have exactly 0 White guilt and never will. Never owned a slave, "held a brother down" or encouraged it in any way, so I have no reason to own that shit... get over it.

orthodoc · 10-20-2006, 11:10 AM

You beat me to it, rzkenrage. The phenomenon goes all ways. Why on earth focus on 'educated white people' and descendants of the British Empire? (Besides, many descendants of the British Empire are not white.

) It's very common that a particular race or ethnic group will not want their children to marry 'out'. Some groups will ostracize or disown children who don't choose a partner from within the group - or will simply choose their child's spouse for them, and you can bet what the spouse's background will be. This is a human tendency, not an 'educated white' tendency.

wolf · 10-20-2006, 12:18 PM

Bud, perhaps your children will be gay and grandchildren won't be an issue for you. Problem solved.

10-20-2006, 12:32 PM

Be fine with that too, being bi.

Flint · 10-20-2006, 12:33 PM

you saucy rascal

10-20-2006, 12:36 PM

mrnoodle · 10-20-2006, 12:38 PM

re: my previous post -- I really must stop posting under the influence. Why doesn't anyone ever warn me?

I don't think there's anything wrong with black grandparents hoping their kids are black, nor for Asian grandparents to hope their grandkids are Asiatic looking, or for <fill in the blank>, etc etc etc. Thanks to the white power/black power/whatever power morons, we have this idea that it's wrong to have a preference for your own race. It's not wrong, and it shouldn't be equated to "racism" in the negative sense.

If you don't care whether or not your kids look like "your people", that's great. Your dating options have widened dramatically. But don't feel guilty, and don't project negative racist intentions on others, if you or they have a different preference.

[ymmv][semi-rant]Not everything deserves or requires a 60s revolution-style backlash. I can't wait for the hippies/self-proclaimed radicals to get old enough to move to Florida and play shuffleboard, and stop making mountains out of molehills. You made your points, and some of them were good ones, but it's now time to feel something other than rebellious selfrighteousness for awhile.[/semi-rant][/ymmv]

10-20-2006, 12:46 PM

Of course it's racism. If your kid is dating someone, getting along with them and there is nothing you don't like about them but their color, you are a dirty bigot, end of story.

10-19-2006, 12:10 AM	#16
Ibby erika Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: "the high up north" Posts: 6,127	Maybe I'm just an exception, but mixed-race doesnt bother me in the slightest. In fact, my girlfriend is half-mexican, which would make my kids, if it gets to that point and we actually have any, quarter mexican. And I dont care. __________________ not really back, you didn't see me, i was never here shhhhhh

10-19-2006, 12:28 AM	#17
KinkyVixen Marching In! Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Wichita, KS Posts: 580	I thought it bothered me...before I realized who I was, and the things that were important to me. The color of one's skin scrapes the bottom of my list. More importantly are the things they believe and the way they behave, etc... The heart wants what the heart wants...regardless of color, or a lot of other things, at least for me. I think it would be silly to deny myself something because i'm hung up on something as trivial as a color... __________________ "Smile before bed.You'll sleep better."

10-19-2006, 12:29 AM	#18
mrnoodle bent Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: under the weather Posts: 2,656	I have a thing for certain races, but not all of them are white. James Bond liked em, so I liked em too. If a partner happens to be black, they must like metal. Or tolerate it. It does, in fact, happen. Pretty much single rule for dating is: You see this? This is what you will be dating. If you see room for improvement, I will of course engage wiht you in frank but respectful dialogue re: that improvement. On date one, we should be only complimentint one another. or we will be booted from the date. Same goes for several more dates, wherein we pretend to be the most open minded, amaYzing hearts we have ever met. Then we start "dating" dating. This phase is the last in which you may make improvements to me. Afterwards, you drive off the lot, and I'm yours. Changes can be made OCCasionally to haircut, but not the haircut you saw on Guiding Light. It must be rock like, or able to become that way with minimal effort. 1. No , I won't quit the band. 2. No, I won't move to the town your mothr lives in, unless it's within 100 miles. 3. I'm not going to move in with you until we're married. That's how I was raised, and the only downside is that people will point and laugh. So you gotta be good with that. 4. If that's too hard, we can sneak around for sex occassionally, but we must repent for not giving strong enough effort to our moral desire to be pure. 5. That's only if I luck into a virgin. shhh. And for the 3rd time, I find myself at the end of a post that I don't remember the content. But anyway, if they're the right girl/boy for you, you should not be denied love becasue of the pointing and snorting of low class babboons. __________________ Sìn a nall na cuaranan sin. -- Cha mhór is fheairrde thu iad, tha iad coltach ri cat air a dhathadh

10-19-2006, 09:49 AM	#20
xoxoxoBruce The future is unwritten Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 71,105	Perhaps you want the very best for your grandchildren, and being realistic, know life and success might be easier for white children. __________________ The descent of man ~ Nixon, Friedman, Reagan, Trump.

10-20-2006, 03:24 AM	#21
Aliantha trying hard to be a better person Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 16,493	Nothing gained is worth having unless it takes a bit of blood, some sweat and a few tears. __________________ Kind words are the music of the world. F. W. Faber

10-19-2006, 12:42 AM	#19
Buddug Guest Posts: n/a	Très ...intéressant , Monsieur .

10-20-2006, 08:55 AM	#22
Shawnee123 Why, you're a regular Alfred E Einstein, ain't ya? Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 21,206	Guess who's coming to the French Caribbean for dinner? __________________ A word to the wise ain't necessary - it's the stupid ones who need the advice. --Bill Cosby

10-20-2006, 10:55 AM	#23
rkzenrage Guest Posts: n/a	I would be more than happy to have a black grandchild. You sound like the bigot to me Bud... it is time to move-on. That goes both ways BTW. I was dating a lovely girl who was told not to because of my race. It is equally a bad, bigoted, racist and everything else people like to call "us"... all races are. It's just ok to say it about Caucasians. I have exactly 0 White guilt and never will. Never owned a slave, "held a brother down" or encouraged it in any way, so I have no reason to own that shit... get over it.

10-20-2006, 11:10 AM	#24
orthodoc Not Suspicious, Merely Canadian Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 3,774	You beat me to it, rzkenrage. The phenomenon goes all ways. Why on earth focus on 'educated white people' and descendants of the British Empire? (Besides, many descendants of the British Empire are not white. ) It's very common that a particular race or ethnic group will not want their children to marry 'out'. Some groups will ostracize or disown children who don't choose a partner from within the group - or will simply choose their child's spouse for them, and you can bet what the spouse's background will be. This is a human tendency, not an 'educated white' tendency. __________________ The greatness of a nation and its moral progress can be judged by the way its animals are treated. - Ghandi

10-20-2006, 12:18 PM	#25
wolf lobber of scimitars Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Phila Burbs Posts: 20,774	Bud, perhaps your children will be gay and grandchildren won't be an issue for you. Problem solved. __________________ wolf eht htiw og "Conspiracies are the norm, not the exception." --G. Edward Griffin The Creature from Jekyll Island High Priestess of the Church of the Whale Penis

10-20-2006, 12:32 PM	#26
rkzenrage Guest Posts: n/a	Be fine with that too, being bi.

10-20-2006, 12:33 PM	#27
Flint Snowflake Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Dystopia Posts: 13,136	you saucy rascal __________________ **************** There's a level of facility that everyone needs to accomplish, and from there it's a matter of deciding for yourself how important ultra-facility is to your expression. ... I found, like Joseph Campbell said, if you just follow whatever gives you a little joy or excitement or awe, then you're on the right track. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Terry Bozzio**

10-20-2006, 12:38 PM	#29
mrnoodle bent Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: under the weather Posts: 2,656	re: my previous post -- I really must stop posting under the influence. Why doesn't anyone ever warn me? I don't think there's anything wrong with black grandparents hoping their kids are black, nor for Asian grandparents to hope their grandkids are Asiatic looking, or for <fill in the blank>, etc etc etc. Thanks to the white power/black power/whatever power morons, we have this idea that it's wrong to have a preference for your own race. It's not wrong, and it shouldn't be equated to "racism" in the negative sense. If you don't care whether or not your kids look like "your people", that's great. Your dating options have widened dramatically. But don't feel guilty, and don't project negative racist intentions on others, if you or they have a different preference. [ymmv][semi-rant]Not everything deserves or requires a 60s revolution-style backlash. I can't wait for the hippies/self-proclaimed radicals to get old enough to move to Florida and play shuffleboard, and stop making mountains out of molehills. You made your points, and some of them were good ones, but it's now time to feel something other than rebellious selfrighteousness for awhile.[/semi-rant][/ymmv] __________________ Sìn a nall na cuaranan sin. -- Cha mhór is fheairrde thu iad, tha iad coltach ri cat air a dhathadh

10-20-2006, 12:46 PM	#30
rkzenrage Guest Posts: n/a	Of course it's racism. If your kid is dating someone, getting along with them and there is nothing you don't like about them but their color, you are a dirty bigot, end of story.

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