What I've learned about men and marriage

[Clodfobble]

I'm not being hypocritical because I'm not saying either side is better than the other. Hypocrisy involves saying one thing and doing another. If I am wrong, I am wrong in both word and deed and not one or the other. Perhaps you mean inconsistent in which case, I respectfully disagree.

I meant hypocritical--the saying one thing and doing another would be A.) saying women shouldn't have these expectations of men to act like women, while B.) having the exact same expectations of women to act like men.

You say you don't have such expectations of women, and I believe you. But plenty of men do. Either way, I didn't mean you personally were hypocritical, more that the position at large often is.