Speaking of which ... it's ten days since I heard from un-friend. Pretty conclusive, right?
And my ex has stepped up in ways I never anticipated - offering anything I need, coming down to pick up my cats, offering to be a second pair of ears/second brain during appointments if I want, offering to come after surgery and at chemo to do necessary things ... if I want. Very respectful, no pushing.
Life - drops boulders on your head, pushes you off cliffs, sucker-punches you. I wish I could get a handle on it.
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The greatness of a nation and its moral progress can be judged by the way its animals are treated. - Ghandi
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