"She", not "he", guys

[henry quirk]

"...because it is not worth it to you does not make them wrong"

If you actually read both of those folks' most recent posts in this thread you'll find neither actually says anything. That's why neither is worth responding to (in this thread).

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"Your definitions lose potency the farther you extend them from yourself."

I see: so this applies to Ibram as well, yes?

If not: why?

Keep in mind: over and over and over I've said I don't care how Ibram self-defines, I simply refuse to participate in that self-definition by calling him 'her'.

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"...greater, dare I say, more intimate knowledge of what they're talking about."

What 'greater' knowledge?

He feels like she...fine by me...not disputing the depth or veracity of his feelings...am disputing that he actually 'is' she.