Bad Manners

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Originally Posted by kerosene

Yeah, we don't typically like for people other than ourselves to be successful with finances.

bingo. rude to ask and rude to divulge because you're generally trying to point out how much better off you are /or how much worse off you are (and it's not your fault) and they should feel sorry for you. You would never start a discussion about it if you expected people to be pretty much the same as yourself.