A little lost

[Sundae]

We have some old threads regarding dom and sub themes.
The majority of posters now would not be able to give you personal or specialised advice.

You are welcome here, but in truth there are other sites you will find far more useful and helpful.
Previously suggested:

Check out http://www.scarleteen.com/

Go down to the bottom of the page and type BDSM into the search box - you'll get some information from that point on. Scarleteen is a well known and well respected site that obviously caters to a younger population, and most importantly offers a sex positive outlook.

And from another Dwellar:

I also love Scarleteen, and found this gem there recently. Although it does not pertain exclusively to D/s interactions, it is absolutely good advice nonetheless. Good for you to follow and good for you to watch others follow, in fact, moreso the latter than the former.

Driver's Ed for the Sexual Superhighway: Navigating Consent

We're a friendly bunch here, but BDSM is not our area of expertise, just a previous discussion.

Good luck, espeically if this is your first foray,
Sundae.