Serious advice needed

[xoxoxoBruce]

Originally posted by Riddil

Snip....For months I had grown malcontent b/c she seemed materialistic. And she never seemed to want to DO anything for me, even though I did my best to draw blood from stone for her.
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But after we'd been together I saw a different person. And when I talked she actually listened to what I had to say. She'd gotten to the point where she was closer to my family than *I* was. She was willing to sacrifice any and every thing for me................SNIP

Calm down. Your occillating faster than a short post. Did you tell her "It's not you it's me"? She's probably closer to your family because most people talk about crap. You tried to be logical and rational but my guess is you finally went with gut feeling. Trust your gut.
Besides there's no hurry, this is a football weekend.