No, not so bad. Phew - at least it wasn't that!
He just decided to let her out in the yard ("supervised of course") against my specific expressed wishes. I was warned she might bolt because she hasn't lived indoors for months. And a barely familiar human lunging at her would scare her off further. We'd have had no chance to get her back and she'd have been in a worse situation than she was rescued from.
And also fed her mid afternoon without checking what my plans were for her. I am controlling her food intake as she's been scavenging food for months - I want her to learn that food is steadily and regularly available here, not gorge herself because it's there.
I'm over it now - he apologised without prompting so I guess he realised it was not really his call to make.
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