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Old 05-17-2008, 01:06 PM   #1
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When someone treats me like a lady, I feel honour bound to respond as such.
I appreciate the dichotomy, but the truth is I value intelligence, humour and courtesy far higher than physical contact. So if I believe someone else does too, I don't want to jeopardise that. I'd rather meet this charming man again for some of the same, than squander the evening on a one-off session of genital contact.

True, he might happily meet me again for conversation, dinner, walking if I had sex with him. But there's always a charged atmosphere afterwards.

Oh I dunno. Bottom line, he was very attractive but I felt good going home alone.
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Old 05-17-2008, 01:29 PM   #2
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.... Bottom line, he was very attractive but I felt good going home alone.
I think that's all that matters, that you felt good about how the evening ended. Good for you SG! Hope you continue to have fun!
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Old 05-17-2008, 08:08 PM   #3
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When someone treats me like a lady, I feel honour bound to respond as such.
I appreciate the dichotomy, but the truth is I value intelligence, humour and courtesy far higher than physical contact. So if I believe someone else does too, I don't want to jeopardise that. I'd rather meet this charming man again for some of the same, than squander the evening on a one-off session of genital contact.

True, he might happily meet me again for conversation, dinner, walking if I had sex with him. But there's always a charged atmosphere afterwards.

Oh I dunno. Bottom line, he was very attractive but I felt good going home alone.
I admire you for this. I imagine the afterglow in a meeting well done!
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