Praying to everything that is holy

[freshnesschronic]

I think a lot of you are missing a huge point.

I am in college. She is in high school. We are three hours away.
Yes, I admit I have control issues but I just wanted to be with her the first time she socially drinks. I never socially drank until college and it was a whole new scene for me. I wanted to be there to help her if she got messed up, because: a. she never socially has drank before b. she weighs under 100 pounds.
Is that not enough reason to care for her first time drinking?

My cousin influences. She was raped. Bent over the toilet bowl upchucking her guts and her "friend" who brought her there that motherfucker he is took advantage. It was the upstairs bathroom and no one there to witness.
The court let him go. It was one of those "not enough evidence" and "the girl was too drunk" to put that motherfucker away. I would slit his throat if I had the chance, no doubt. Guess what. THAT party was my cousin's first time socially drinking, she is an honor student and her background is of a nice, clean cut kid. Now fuck all of you people saying "welll....." there is no way she consented. That goddamn piece of shit low life of the world "friend" raped her. I would murder him in a heartbeat. Maybe you all haven't had family members raped or sexually assaulted. My thinking is different from yours.

[Dagney]

Originally Posted by freshnesschronic

Maybe you all haven't had family members raped or sexually assaulted. My thinking is different from yours.

Maybe some of us have - and think that this girl really needs to get away from someone who throws up so many red flags regarding control issues.

My thinking is different from _yours_....and there is a most definite trend towards you trying to control every aspect of her life - from her cell phone, to whom she has her first illicit beer with.

Good god man. You've had one year of college under your belt. That does NOT make you an expert on anything in SOMEONE ELSE'S LIFE. (Nor will 4, or a Masters, or a Doctorate....)

You want to control things? Control yourself. You want to OWN someone? Get a dog. I'll bet a dollar she doesn't answer her cell phone today. I sure as hell wouldn't.