Is it ever *ok* to cheat?

[Hoof Hearted]

Originally Posted by Spexxvet

Let me make sure this is clear. You think it is better to give up a loving, caring relationship, stable home environment, two-parent household, and break apart a family, rather than cheat?

If that person is considering cheating, then I have to argue that the relationship is NOT loving, caring or stable and a breakup seems immenent because of those factors.

Originally Posted by Spexxvet

Do you think the wife should just give it up, once in a while?

Cheater can be either wife or husband. Lets not lump the "cause" all on the poor wifey, now...