Rejection Hotline

[Clodfobble]

Originally Posted by skysidhe

I was wondering what to say if he gets too chummy. Should I say "hey, you remind me of my ex." Then I imagine him asking what happened to him and I say, "Oh, He's a bum and I never have anything to do with him."

I always found that "Sorry, you remind me of my abusive stepfather" does the trick nicely without any followup questions.

[skysidhe]

Originally Posted by Clodfobble

I always found that "Sorry, you remind me of my abusive stepfather" does the trick nicely without any followup questions.

haha! well, I just usually say, sorry I am too busy.
I don't allow for any follow up questioning. I found that guys want to do the superficial flirt thing without anything real to back it up.

For instance. I went to a battery shop and bought a battery , of course :p . There was this guy behind me waiting in line.
anyway, I am outside putting the battery in my car then the cables on my brand new battery and out comes that same guy. He says, " hey, you need any help with that?" I said, nope I got it' 'chuckle chuckle' when my eyes said, " If you really wanted to help sucka you would have paid for the damn thing" or a bunch of other thoughts I was thinking when I drove off. Like, " no, I am doing this for my own amuzement" or "Do I look like I need help?" " I have the damn wrench in my hand don't I?" I mean how was that suppose to make me feel flattered he wanted to turn my wrench? I don't get it.