Merry F'in Christmas - I want a divorce.

[xoxoxoBruce]

I've got a book too. "Screw The Bitch" from Loompanics Unlimited. Amazon has it.

I would also like to add that the biggest problem for me is the affair changed my entire world view. It shatttered what truths I thought existed. My wife could not only love me, but another man. I htought I was special to her, and we were special. That is no longer true. I still feel very insecure about everything.

It's an uphill battle to get centered again after having the future snatched away. It's too easy to be bitter and paranoid. Time heals all (non-fatal) wounds, but the scars remain.