how far are yo uwilling to go to please your partner?

[Beestie]

Just make sure that if you decide to proceed that your heart is in it. Don't be second guessing yourself halfway through or looking at your watch or rolling your eyes. Give the woman her money's worth. Later, you can decide if you will ever do it again.

I can tell you that this fantasy is not so uncommon. I'd also recommend not doing anything that will leave any kind of bruise or mark that could be "misinterpreted" later by someone else. Blindfolds and weapons can add to the danger factor if she's into being a little scared.

I suspect, if you look around, you could find a book at one of those sex-toy stores that can give you some guidance. I think it would go a long way for her if she can tell that you actually put some thought and effort into it (not saying your not, just saying). Also, for something like this, set up is important. You don't just go from sharing popcorn on the couch to that - "hide" in the closet and wait a while...


Good luck if you all decide to try it.