I know this isn't Oprah but...

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I agree with your post 100%, Sidhe. And this I think is the crucial bit:

Originally posted by Lady Sidhe
If he really DID care for you, he wouldn't be sleeping with her right now. Sounds to me like he just wants sex, regardless of who it's with.

He has made his choice painfully clear. It seems obvious to me.

Catwoman, I think we have all been in your shoes. I know I have. It sucks. I feel for you. I'm skeptical that you can remain friends with him, even if you want to. Your emotions are too strong. I know I couldn't.

By all means, I think you should talk to him. Tell him everything. It will clear the air, and you will see where you stand. You will feel better, and it may actually help the situation. At a minimum, the two of them may be more discreet in the future. At least they will be if they were ever your friends.

Or you may find out that it wasn't meant to be. You'll probably need to move out then. It would be too painful to stay.

Whatever happens, I wish you the best.