tell me what you think about this

[staceyv]

the girl i work with - the same one who ruined my wedding reception that i wrote about in the thread "holding the grudge" well, she's pregnant. when she was 3 months pregnant she went to the doctor and he told her there was no chance of a miscarriage at that point. so, she said "i wish he hadn't told me that everything would be fine, because now i'm a little careless. i've been drinking coffee, i'll have a drink and i smoked some weed" - she said this in front of three people like there was nothing wrong with it! like she has nothing to be ashamed of! then, the day after thanksgiving, she was complaining because she had some captain morgan and coke, and another lady at the party said something to her husband about her drinking. so this girl is mad and thinks that woman should mind her business about her drinking. well she is 7 months pregnant now! what nerve she has. that woman should have asked her to leave the party. the people who overheard her talking about smoking weed should have bitched her out, but they just kept their mouths shut. i won't let her know how i feel because i'm not sure what i could say or how to say it. but is she crazy? did something change? is it now safe and socially acceptable to drink liquor, coffee and smoke weed while you are pregnant?