Getting a friend help

piercehawkeye45 · 02-15-2010, 11:33 AM

This is what has been happening consistently. He will do some extremely asshole-ish move when he is drunk. Then, the next dat he will remember the event except everything he did that would be considered an asshole move. Or, he will downplay it to the point where he does not consider it his fault.

I have stopped hanging around him for the past few months for this reason (and others) but he followed the group I was this weekend so I forced to be near him.

Maybe you would still consider that in denial. But it is the fact that he has a very selective drunk memory. I don't think it is him consciously justifying himself either because he is usually honest about times he messes up.

02-15-2010, 11:33 AM	#17
piercehawkeye45 Franklin Pierce Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Minnesota Posts: 3,695	This is what has been happening consistently. He will do some extremely asshole-ish move when he is drunk. Then, the next dat he will remember the event except everything he did that would be considered an asshole move. Or, he will downplay it to the point where he does not consider it his fault. I have stopped hanging around him for the past few months for this reason (and others) but he followed the group I was this weekend so I forced to be near him. Maybe you would still consider that in denial. But it is the fact that he has a very selective drunk memory. I don't think it is him consciously justifying himself either because he is usually honest about times he messes up. __________________ I like my perspectives like I like my baseball caps: one size fits all.

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