Chemo Update

[Elspode]

Right on, Spud! Here's to the start of a cancer-free life. Here's a little story for you all...please, next time I start bitching about something, remind me how insignificant my problems are compared to other people's?

A guy I've just started working with this week asked me how I was today, so I started pissing and moaning about work stress, my kids, poverty, crappy cars and such. He was *so* nice, smiling, telling me about how his kids were at that age (he's about 65), listening to my concerns, and obviously trying to make me feel better.

Then, while talking about how great his kids turned out, he casually mentioned his wife's terminal cancer, and her dire prognosis, and all the chemo and radiation and surgeries she'd been through fighting it. I felt about two inches tall. I mean, who the fuck am I to whine about the stupid shit I was laying down, while this guy stands on the verge of losing his wife of 40 years, and still has a smile and a kind word for a relative stranger? I have a healthy family, a nice house, cars that usually run and food in the cabinets, and this man is going to lose everything that means anything to him someday soon...

I've got to try harder to be a better person.