What do you do when...

Originally Posted by Ibram

yeah, and um i already agreed. I dont wanna tell him.
any advice for what i... should do maybe?

Originally Posted by Ibram

... i more meant... any ideas for how to um, soften it a little bit while i wait it out?

On the road of life there are drivers and there are passengers. If you choose to be a passenger, the best you'll be able to do is complain about the scenery. Still, until you get a driver's license, you can play with the radio and immerse yourself in the music. During your trip to London, immerse yourself in another of your fellow sightseers and try to enjoy the ride.

Clever people call it substitute behavior and prefer it to commiserating with others as a coping mechanism. I'll just have to take their word for it: I'm a driver.