I think you are saying you are invisible, and that sucks! I know other minorities who have expressed that as well, including an old friend.
It's hard to speak up and bitch because then there is tension. You'd have to get their attention in a eye lock and get them to appreciate that they are taking advantage and being unfair, (tempting to say more but better not to). Try to reach them with reason, although I don't have to tell you....you are living this.
If I was there, and I was in line with you, I'd be sticking up for you!
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