Any Decent Pain Groups?

I have been doing Yoga and meditation for over twenty years, been in pain for a long time, so have been in the pain system for a while.
As for pot, I smoke and do Leary biscuits from time to time, but try not to have it in the house. It helps with nausea and muscle spasms better than anything else (I can't take marinol, it makes me very ill). But, I have a two year old and, mainly, do not like to jeopardize my wife's job due to the fuck-head anti-plant Nazis who like to see people suffer so textile and lumber firms continue to make their profits as they drink their martinis. That is the fact, if you are against medical marijuana you want people to suffer, end of story.
Until recently, I have had a very positive outlook on this, and still know that everyone has their shit, this just being mine... just a bit overwhelmed right now.