Would you...?

Embarque upon a sexual relationship with somebody you're not in love with?

In the past, I would have always answered "no," but my romances based on "love at first sight" have all been devastating ones. I have had two romances based on NOT love at first sight and one turned into a 20 year marriage with fond memories of my ex to this very day,and one turned into a short lived affair that I wished I'd never gotten into.

I've met a man in my new town who seems very interested in me, has bought expensive presents for me, drops by just to talk to me, etc. I find him attractive physically but honestly doubt the long term potential of the thing.

Still, I've been celibate for a year after the horrible ending with the ax murderer and I like sex as much as any other woman, and it would be nice not to sleep alone every night.

I guess I'm asking if it would be wrong to "Use" this man as a sexual partner? Guys, has a woman ever made you feel "used" that way? Would I be doing something hurtful just to go ahead and have an affair with this man? I worry more about breaking his heart than him breaking mine.

Advise?