Well I guess it take all sorts - I think there is a lot to be said for bedroom compatibility (not at the exclusion of other areas of the relationship). All the Christian fraternity (am I on dodgy ground here) who promote no sex before marriage I have to say that I cant go with that view any more. I used to but not now. I ended up going to therapy because I was approached by another woman who "wanted me" and then withdrew the offer - but it screwed me up as she seemed to want me for me and I didn't have to work so hard at it and it hadn't been my experience in my marraige - I know thats only an initial thing and in time all relationships need working at but it made me think.
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