How stubborn we can be

[Beestie]

Originally Posted by Catwoman

Quite, sm. You marry someone for who they are. If you don't like it, you shouldn't have married them.

While true, I don't think that bit of wisdom applies in this case.

Its a basic human responsibility to clean the damn toilet. Cleanliness in general is a basic human dignity and I certainly don't think that having an expectation of at least a sanitary level of tidiness is being unfair/bitchy/suffering-from-esteem-issues/obsessive-compulsive or even out of the ordinary.

But I will say this: you (SV) are making awfully easy for him to get away with it. When you buy a house, get ready to do ALL the yardwork and when you have kids, get ready to do ALL the diapers in addition to all the stuff you already do in addition to working. And cooking and packing Arsen five course lunches. And ALL the laundry. Plus the dog. Ten years from now, you will look back at today and wish you had it that easy again.