I know this isn't Oprah but...

[Yelof]

Am I just being incredibly naive? Or should I hold onto the possibility of loving again?

I am probably too cynical to answer correctly that question.

But in terms of managing your situation your problem would seem to be that you live with him. You seem to be in love with him and would like him to take the risk to love you too, it would be more managable for you if you didn't live with him but instead only met up occasionally, of course if you left the house that leaves studboy living alone with that other girl.

Life is a bitch, be demanding on him and yourself, it will save pain in the long run.

-disclaimer- all advice given is subject to change, investments may go up as well as down, if you do not make your payments you may lose your house

added commas and shit on edit (as normal)