Abuse (Lets Deal With it)

JBKlyde · 02-18-2012, 12:26 PM

Well to be honest I don't trust myself around women that is why I don't even try to find a girl friend. When I was a kid I was subject to abuse from my dad and I credit myself to liberating my mother from the strong hold of my fathers abuse. The Irony now everyone thinks I'm some monster tor-wards women because of some of the ridiculousness I've verbally done on the net. While yes I have crossed the line, NO I don't think I'm an abuser. However I don't think I even know how to have a relationship so I'm just gonna stay single till I find a woman who is stronger than me who can keep me in check an keep me in love.

qcc??
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Sundae · 02-18-2012, 01:23 PM

Quid pro quo

JBKlyde · 02-18-2012, 01:49 PM

fefe fi fofo fefe fi fo fo, I don't know no fefe.

Undertoad · 02-18-2012, 02:40 PM

Did you ever get therapy specifically for the abuse?

JBKlyde · 02-18-2012, 02:51 PM

Yes, I did when my parents got divorced my mom sent me to a therapist.

Undertoad · 02-18-2012, 05:40 PM

That's good! Do you feel it was helpful?

JBKlyde · 02-18-2012, 06:19 PM

The only thing that I got out of it was that "the grass wasn't any greener on the other side".

sexobon · 02-18-2012, 08:21 PM

Are you saying that you were no better off after your parents got divorced?

JBKlyde · 02-19-2012, 10:04 AM

I dunno they separated when I was 15 and I was free as a 'wild child' I got away with things I would have never gotten away with if my dad was around..

sexobon · 02-19-2012, 06:52 PM

What caused that situation to eventually change?

JBKlyde · 02-19-2012, 07:37 PM

My Dad went back to school and studied construction engineering and left my mom and us to fend for ourselves.. she kept the house and went broke.. he stayed away and now he works as an engineer.. The older we got the more ridiculous it got but when I flunked out of college It was a very humbling experience and I realized that family was more important than money so now I just unconditional forgive them both.

Where's My 2 dollars??

sexobon · 02-19-2012, 08:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JBKlyde

... Where's My 2 dollars??

Here's your tip:
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Better
Understanding
Serves
Everyone

JBKlyde · 02-20-2012, 02:12 PM

Fear
Love
Anger
Sad
Happy

all other emotions can be derived from that.

sexobon · 02-20-2012, 02:44 PM

Which is jealously/envy derived from?

infinite monkey · 02-20-2012, 03:26 PM

Fear.

02-18-2012, 12:26 PM	#1
JBKlyde Banned Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Encrypted Into an AmpitheaterWall Posts: 1,722	Abuse (Lets Deal With it) Well to be honest I don't trust myself around women that is why I don't even try to find a girl friend. When I was a kid I was subject to abuse from my dad and I credit myself to liberating my mother from the strong hold of my fathers abuse. The Irony now everyone thinks I'm some monster tor-wards women because of some of the ridiculousness I've verbally done on the net. While yes I have crossed the line, NO I don't think I'm an abuser. However I don't think I even know how to have a relationship so I'm just gonna stay single till I find a woman who is stronger than me who can keep me in check an keep me in love. qcc?? __________________

02-18-2012, 01:23 PM	#2
Sundae polaroid of perfection Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: West Yorkshire Posts: 24,185	Quid pro quo

02-18-2012, 01:49 PM	#3
JBKlyde Banned Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Encrypted Into an AmpitheaterWall Posts: 1,722	fefe fi fofo fefe fi fo fo, I don't know no fefe.

02-18-2012, 02:40 PM	#4
Undertoad Radical Centrist Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Cottage of Prussia Posts: 31,423	Did you ever get therapy specifically for the abuse?

02-18-2012, 02:51 PM	#5
JBKlyde Banned Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Encrypted Into an AmpitheaterWall Posts: 1,722	Yes, I did when my parents got divorced my mom sent me to a therapist.

02-18-2012, 05:40 PM	#6
Undertoad Radical Centrist Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Cottage of Prussia Posts: 31,423	That's good! Do you feel it was helpful?

02-18-2012, 06:19 PM	#7
JBKlyde Banned Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Encrypted Into an AmpitheaterWall Posts: 1,722	The only thing that I got out of it was that "the grass wasn't any greener on the other side".

02-18-2012, 08:21 PM	#8
sexobon I love it when a plan comes together. Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 9,793	Are you saying that you were no better off after your parents got divorced?

02-19-2012, 10:04 AM	#9
JBKlyde Banned Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Encrypted Into an AmpitheaterWall Posts: 1,722	I dunno they separated when I was 15 and I was free as a 'wild child' I got away with things I would have never gotten away with if my dad was around..

02-19-2012, 06:52 PM	#10
sexobon I love it when a plan comes together. Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 9,793	What caused that situation to eventually change?

02-19-2012, 07:37 PM	#11
JBKlyde Banned Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Encrypted Into an AmpitheaterWall Posts: 1,722	My Dad went back to school and studied construction engineering and left my mom and us to fend for ourselves.. she kept the house and went broke.. he stayed away and now he works as an engineer.. The older we got the more ridiculous it got but when I flunked out of college It was a very humbling experience and I realized that family was more important than money so now I just unconditional forgive them both. Where's My 2 dollars??

02-20-2012, 02:12 PM	#13
JBKlyde Banned Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Encrypted Into an AmpitheaterWall Posts: 1,722	Fear Love Anger Sad Happy all other emotions can be derived from that.

02-20-2012, 02:44 PM	#14
sexobon I love it when a plan comes together. Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 9,793	Which is jealously/envy derived from?

02-20-2012, 03:26 PM	#15
infinite monkey Person who doesn't update the user title Join Date: Mar 2011 Posts: 13,002	Fear.

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