I Ducks, do hereby solemnly declare....

[xoxoxoBruce]

Damn... I wish you were closer Ducks. I could probably capitalize on your mood to take advantage of you.

[skysidhe]

Originally Posted by DucksNuts

Was RK right when he said something along the lines of...... attractive chicks without partners, are single for a reason.....?

A friend of mine (male) said something a long the lines of (and dont shoot the messenger here)...

......really attractive chicks are super high maintenance and too much trouble.

.....really ugly chicks are really insecure and high maintenance, so too much trouble.

....fairly attractive chicks are easy going and comfortable with themselves, they are the ideal partner here.

....when you see a seriously unattractive chick with a hot guy, you have to wonder whether she can suck start a harley, or let herself go when she *landed the big one*.


I guess I am just pondering the big picture here and generally feeling shitty with myself.

hehe this belonged in the humor thread really.

You did leave out one though. How about fairly attractive chicks who don't know how to trust anymore so run from relationships.

I am torn between thinking this is healthy not to need someone and it really must be unhealthy for not needing anyone.

I am always puzzled at women who can go from one heart ache to another. Their need for love is so strong. If that 'need for love' came in a bottle I'd just take one every now and then and just go prowling for a night.

[Shawnee123]

Originally Posted by skysidhe

I am torn between thinking this is healthy not to need someone and it really must be unhealthy for not needing anyone.

I am always puzzled at women who can go from one heart ache to another. Their need for love is so strong. If that 'need for love' came in a bottle I'd just take one every now and then and just go prowling for a night.

There is the other side you speak of, the "I don't need anyone, I'm perfectly happy and content with myself" yet we long for the bowls of popcorn, and a blanky, a movie, and someone to share it all with.

I too have never understood running into another relationship, another marriage, or whatever. Getting divorced was painful, who wants to set themselves up right away, just out of fear of being alone?

I take great pride in my ability to do it all on my own. But, I'm a human who does wonder if "that guy" is out there.

In the meantime, I guess I'll keep running, screaming, in the other direction. :p

[Spexxvet]

Originally Posted by DucksNuts

......really attractive chicks are super high maintenance and too much trouble.

IMO, usually a chick who is super hot on the outside has not had to develop anything substantial on the inside. For example, they can treat a boyfriend poorly, and if they break up, there's the next guy in line, thinking with his little head, ready to date the hot chick.

Originally Posted by DucksNuts

......when you see a seriously unattractive chick with a hot guy, you have to wonder whether she can suck start a harley, or let herself go when she *landed the big one*.

Maybe she's attractive in other ways. And don't underestimate the power of the suck.

Originally Posted by DucksNuts

I guess I am just pondering the big picture here and generally feeling shitty with myself.

Don't feel shitty, we're here for you.

[Clodfobble]

Originally Posted by Shawnee123

I too have never understood running into another relationship, another marriage, or whatever. Getting divorced was painful, who wants to set themselves up right away, just out of fear of being alone?

"Fear of being alone" doesn't always sum it up. Some people get their fulfillment out of taking care of other people. Being alone = being useless or on a more subconcious level being a bad person, because you're not able to give anything.

[Shawnee123]

That makes sense. Good thing I'm not only independent, I'm selfish!

[DucksNuts]

I'm soooooooo getting back on the fucking horse this weekend

[lumberjim]

try a man first, ducks...if its been a while..it might be a little .....tight yet?

[ZenGum]

Originally Posted by Shawnee123

SNIP
In the meantime, I guess I'll keep running, screaming, in the other direction. :p

I remember you now...

[DucksNuts]

Originally Posted by lumberjim

try a man first, ducks...if its been a while..it might be a little .....tight yet?

I dont believe in doing things half heartedly

[TheMercenary]

Originally Posted by Spexxvet

IMO, usually a chick who is super hot on the outside has not had to develop anything substantial on the inside. For example, they can treat a boyfriend poorly, and if they break up, there's the next guy in line, thinking with his little head, ready to date the hot chick.

Oh, you mean that old adage that for every hot chick out there, there is some dude that is tired of her crap.

[DanaC]

IMO, usually a chick who is super hot on the outside has not had to develop anything substantial on the inside.

Ahuh. That's not a bit insulting to women. So, women who are very pretty are empty headed, or not worth bothering with? Sheesh. Can't win in this world. Either you're not pretty enough, or you're too pretty to bother with.

[queequeger]

Originally Posted by DanaC

Ahuh. That's not a bit insulting to women. So, women who are very pretty are empty headed, or not worth bothering with? Sheesh. Can't win in this world. Either you're not pretty enough, or you're too pretty to bother with.

No, that's usually a claim of someone frustrated with women. There are plenty of good looking women (and men) worth a relationship. However, attractive women (like attractive men) have a much higher likelihood of being a void-of-personality-twat. I attribute it to the fact that people who are attractive get treated better. I don't think it's a conscious thing, but they get better jobs, better pay, and better opportunities. People want to please them more, whether to get in their pants or just because we love aesthetically pleasing things.

The real treat is someone who USED to be unattractive, so didn't grow up with the attitude that they are somehow better, and then BAM! she turns into super-fox.

[pourbill]

Whenever I see an attractive girl like ducks who is having trouble with guys, I'm pretty sure she is choosing her guys for the wrong reasons. Maybe it's the uniform. Used to work for me years ago, but never fall for anyone who has attracted you with something that comes off (as opposed to goes off).

[Sheldonrs]

Originally Posted by lumberjim

It should be pointed out that this guys name is Matthew Rush.
If you want to see more of him, check out any gay porn shop. He is VERY impressive.
He is also trying to be a legit actor. I saw him in a play in Boston. His acting needs work but I've seen worse. Plus he was naked in the play. Quite a body of work. ;-)