Adding insult to injury or Moving forward?

classicman · 12-31-2016, 12:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Classicman

Started in court - lost. Went to help out dad for a couple hours, then looked at three houses - all losers.

Ended with making an awesome dinner, a few beers and great company. Do I look as wiped as I feel? Oh, and a 4 hour hunting trip starting at 8 am - and hour away.

Yeh, apparently that wasn't enough shit for one day. I ended the 11 year relationship with my GF as well. Issues have been brewing for some time and the distance from her was more than I am willing to take. I want to be with someone who WANTS to be with me also. That hasn't been the case for too long. So yeh. Merry F'ing Holidays.
I am already gutted as I never thought that we'd be apart and I am now facing more uncertainty as the future unfolds. I'm a people person, I don't want to do the alone thing. I WANT to share my life with someone. I want to hold hands, hug and kiss. Is that really too much to ask for? Fuuuuuck. I'm not sure if I'm more hurt, sad or mad. Keeping busy is going to be essential, methinks.

BigV · 12-31-2016, 01:00 PM

What?

*stunned*

Undertoad · 12-31-2016, 01:21 PM

Dang dude! Sorry to hear of this...

limey · 12-31-2016, 01:40 PM

Oh Classic! How awful! You are in my thoughts. X

Sent by magic.

sexobon · 12-31-2016, 01:47 PM

Every cloud has a silver lining; however, silver is a great conductor of electricity so you may feel a little shock.

xoxoxoBruce · 12-31-2016, 02:08 PM

That sucks! Guess you're starting fresh with the new year.

Clodfobble · 12-31-2016, 03:05 PM

You've been in uncertain places before, and always come out on top. It will work itself out, one way or another, and you're strong enough to see it through.

classicman · 12-31-2016, 03:42 PM

Thanks all. We'll see... I'm still shocked. I didn't plan or mean to do it. It came out of another awkward conversation about nothing. These used to be so fluid and easy and positive. For the last couple months they haven't been. She has been basically ambivalent as to whether we saw each other or not. We've been down to 1 day a week for too long. She said she was going to her mom's for NYE and if I wanted to go to some party or something to go ahead and go. I was stunned. I LIVED to see her each week and it was obvious she didn't feel the same anymore.

She would rather be with no one than be with me. That was the knife that cut too deep. I just couldn't do it anymore. I'm hurt, sad, angry and heartbroken, but it was too painful to be with or now even talk to her knowing that.

Pico and ME · 12-31-2016, 04:41 PM

It will take a long while to break out of this fog, Classic. All you can do is move right along with it. It will follow you everywere.

And then it wont. Just hold on till then. My heart wishes you strength and comfort. Be especially forgiving with yourself.

glatt · 12-31-2016, 04:53 PM

I'm sorry classic. That sucks. But good for you for taking control of things and not just waiting around for her.

Gravdigr · 01-01-2017, 04:14 PM

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Originally Posted by classicman

I'm a people person, I don't want to do the alone thing. I WANT to share my life with someone.

Well, I'm easy, but, I ain't cheap.

Griff · 01-01-2017, 06:33 PM

Sorry man, time to write another chapter.

orthodoc · 01-01-2017, 08:40 PM

I'm sorry, classic. From what you've said, it sounds like something had to happen. Doesn't make it easier though.

infinite monkey · 01-02-2017, 07:46 AM

Sorry, classic.

fargon · 01-02-2017, 09:04 AM

Sorry classic, Women are like that.

12-31-2016, 01:00 PM	#2
BigV Goon Squad Leader Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: Seattle Posts: 27,063	What? stunned __________________ Be Just and Fear Not.

12-31-2016, 01:40 PM	#4
limey Encroaching on your decrees Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: An island within the south-west coast of Scotland Posts: 7,016	Oh Classic! How awful! You are in my thoughts. X Sent by magic. __________________ Living it up on the edge ... of civilisation, within the southwest coast of

12-31-2016, 02:08 PM	#6
xoxoxoBruce The future is unwritten Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 71,105	That sucks! Guess you're starting fresh with the new year. __________________ The descent of man ~ Nixon, Friedman, Reagan, Trump.

12-31-2016, 03:05 PM	#7
Clodfobble UNDER CONDITIONAL MITIGATION Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Austin, TX Posts: 20,012	You've been in uncertain places before, and always come out on top. It will work itself out, one way or another, and you're strong enough to see it through. __________________ My book My other book My spirit animal

12-31-2016, 03:42 PM	#8
classicman barely disguised asshole, keeper of all that is holy. Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 23,401	Thanks all. We'll see... I'm still shocked. I didn't plan or mean to do it. It came out of another awkward conversation about nothing. These used to be so fluid and easy and positive. For the last couple months they haven't been. She has been basically ambivalent as to whether we saw each other or not. We've been down to 1 day a week for too long. She said she was going to her mom's for NYE and if I wanted to go to some party or something to go ahead and go. I was stunned. I LIVED to see her each week and it was obvious she didn't feel the same anymore. She would rather be with no one than be with me. That was the knife that cut too deep. I just couldn't do it anymore. I'm hurt, sad, angry and heartbroken, but it was too painful to be with or now even talk to her knowing that. __________________ "like strapping a pillow on a bull in a china shop" Bullitt

12-31-2016, 01:21 PM	#3
Undertoad Radical Centrist Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Cottage of Prussia Posts: 31,423	Dang dude! Sorry to hear of this...

12-31-2016, 01:47 PM	#5
sexobon I love it when a plan comes together. Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 9,793	Every cloud has a silver lining; however, silver is a great conductor of electricity so you may feel a little shock.

12-31-2016, 04:41 PM	#9
Pico and ME Are you knock-kneed? Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Middle Hoosierland Posts: 3,549	It will take a long while to break out of this fog, Classic. All you can do is move right along with it. It will follow you everywere. And then it wont. Just hold on till then. My heart wishes you strength and comfort. Be especially forgiving with yourself. __________________ Jesse LaGreca in 2012 “Seven Deadly Sins: Wealth without work, Pleasure without conscience, Science without humanity, Knowledge without character, Politics without principle, Commerce without morality, Worship without sacrifice.” – Mahatma Gandhi

12-31-2016, 04:53 PM	#10
glatt ™ Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Arlington, VA Posts: 27,717	I'm sorry classic. That sucks. But good for you for taking control of things and not just waiting around for her.

01-01-2017, 06:33 PM	#12
Griff still says videotape Join Date: Feb 2001 Posts: 26,813	Sorry man, time to write another chapter. __________________ If you would only recognize that life is hard, things would be so much easier for you. - Louis D. Brandeis

01-01-2017, 08:40 PM	#13
orthodoc Not Suspicious, Merely Canadian Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 3,774	I'm sorry, classic. From what you've said, it sounds like something had to happen. Doesn't make it easier though. __________________ The greatness of a nation and its moral progress can be judged by the way its animals are treated. - Ghandi

01-02-2017, 07:46 AM	#14
infinite monkey Person who doesn't update the user title Join Date: Mar 2011 Posts: 13,002	Sorry, classic.

01-02-2017, 09:04 AM	#15
fargon Person who doesn't update the user title Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: La Crosse, WI Posts: 8,924	Sorry classic, Women are like that. __________________ Annoy the ones that ignore you!!! I live a blessed life I Love my Country, I Fear the Government!!! Heavily medicated for the good of mankind.

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