Fuck You Jean

[Gravdigr]

Shamelessly copied from ViralNova

When Cocoa was dropped off at the pound, she was left with a note. Her owner claimed to be abandoning her companion of 12 years simply because they were moving to a pet-free environment.

It turns out, the owner was abandoning their family member… because she was sick.

Hello. You don’t know me, and for your sake, you’d best hope and pray that you never have the misfortune to meet me.

How do I know your name? Because the people at animal control gave me Cocoa’s intake sheet. You know, the one you filled out. The one that said Cocoa was 12 years old and you’d had her all those years. The one that said you were moving to a pet-free apartment and couldn’t take your faithful companion of 12 years. You know, the one that you said was a “sweet old girl- a wonderful companion.” The one that said you had limited funds.

Here’s the thing, Jean. Oh, I didn’t ask if I could call you Jean but I’m going to. Or I could call you a number of other names, none of which you’d like very much. When I saw Cocoa’s picture on the animal control website, when I saw that grey muzzle and read the description stating that her people of 12 years, her family, had surrendered her to the pound, it broke my heart.

Jean, I once had a dog that was so ornery she got in trouble for biting a kid on the butt because he’d been tugging her ears. When the city quarantined my dog for 48 hours, I was fully prepared to leave my home, leave school, leave everything in the dead of night, everything except my dog. I was going to Thelma and Louise our asses right out of town. I wasn’t playing. Because that’s how I roll. No dog left behind, Jean.

So when I saw that picture of Cocoa, I just couldn’t understand why someone would dump a family member. And my empathy for that dog consumed me, until I made yet another rash decision and I rushed to the pound to adopt her.

Act in haste, repent in leisure. That’s my motto, Jean.

When I got Cocoa I had pink eye and a sinus infection. I was so sick but I went and got her anyway, because I was worried that dog was terrified and was going to be euthanized, alone and scared, looking everywhere for her people. I couldn’t stand the thought of it, and she wasn’t even my dog.

It took me two days of antibiotics before I finally realized why she might have been dumped at the pound. Something tells me Cocoa didn’t become highly incontinent over the course of the week between you dumping her at the pound and me bringing her home.

It took us a few weeks, Jean, but we finally got the right dosage of meds to keep the incontinence mostly in check. I was happy, Cocoa was happy, and the house was clean again.

But that didn’t last long, Jean. Just a few weeks after I got her, she came down with acute pancreatitis. That meant she needed antibiotics and special food, food that cost me $2.25 per can, and she could easily eat two cans in a day. But that wasn’t even the worst part of that office visit, Jean. You probably know what I’m going to say next, right? About the tumors?

They couldn’t be sure whether the tumors were causing the pancreatitis, so we decided the “wait and see” plan was the best course of action.

And I became more and more convinced that you had abandoned your family member because you knew she was sick. You knew she had cancer, and you couldn’t afford to treat her or to help her. What upset me so much, Jean, is that you couldn’t be bothered to drive the extra 20 minutes to take her to the Humane Society, a no-kill shelter. Or to even take her to your own vet and have her humanely euthanized with you there to comfort her.

So every few weeks I had to go buy expensive food for Cocoa, the family member you dumped at the pound. The dog that you abandoned. And every few weeks I would buy her “old lady pee pills.” I found that XL toddler pull-ups worked the best, once I cut a hole in the back for her tail.
And we waited.

In the meantime, Cocoa went to the mountains. She fell over the side of a small mountain, she saw deer. She had so much fun. She would get frisky and try to play with my other dogs right after they ate. It happened every night. She was so cute. My boys loved her and accepted her, like they accept every sad story that comes home with me. They would even let her have the hammock bed every night if she wanted it.
On Sunday mornings I would sometimes let all the dogs come climb into bed with me for a while. Cocoa really liked those mornings, Jean. She liked to be included. Sometimes I’d have all three dogs and two cats up there. She loved it.

But all the while, those tumors were still there. And surgery wasn’t an option.

This week Cocoa’s belly started swelling. I kept waiting for it to subside but it didn’t, Jean.

Yesterday we went in for x-rays and found that the masses were too big, her belly too full of fluid to even see her organs. We could try diuretics to remove the fluid, but that was just a Bandaid. This wasn’t going away. And I didn’t want Cocoa’s last days to be filled with consternation over having accidents in the house again. You see, that’s the difference between us, Jean. I worried about how Cocoa felt. I could look in her eyes and see the stress when she had accidents.

So we didn’t do the meds. I brought her home and figured I’d give her a few last good weeks. I would spoil her and make her feel like the Grand Dame she was.

But it didn’t turn out that way, Jean. Turns out today was Cocoa’s last day.

Here’s the thing, though. Instead of dying on a cold floor in a cold building with people who may or may not give a damn how her end happened, she died in my arms. I held your dog’s head in my arms and I whispered in her ear while she slipped away. I told her what a pretty girl she was. I told her how much I loved her as I stroked that spot just above her eye.

I made sure she knew she was loved. I made sure that my face was the last face she saw, that my voice was the last voice she heard.

You might wonder why I’m telling you all this, Jean. You might wonder if I just wanted you to know that Cocoa was ok.

I’d like to disabuse you of that notion. I’m writing this letter to let you know just what a piece of s*** I think you are. If you ever do read this letter, know that I, along with my many animal-loving friends all over this world, think you are the lowest of the low. You don’t take a 12-year-old dog, a “sweet old girl- a wonderful companion”, and dump her at a high-kill shelter. You didn’t even give her a good chance.

She got lucky the day that I saw her picture because let me tell you, Jean, my animals want for nothing.
And to all the people reading this who “knew” Cocoa Loco, all of her friends around the world, here’s where the story ends.

This cruelty towards a companion of 12 years, a dear friend and family member, sickens us.

[Undertoad]

Ah but what if Jean... had partial dementia and was actually moving into a nursing home?


surprise ending by m. night shamalamadingdong

[Gravdigr]

But, she didn't.

[Clodfobble]

Just so I'm sure I understand:

Paying to euthanize the dog immediately = OK

Sending the dog to be euthanized for free = Not OK... because the dog will feel sad?

Potential sins of the original owner aside, the author's moral superiority is tarnished by her bitter complaints about all the expensive food she "had" to buy.

[infinite monkey]

Pets are not disposable. It's sick thinking to think they are. You adopted the animal, you help it through to the end.Otherwise, yes, you're cold-hearted and you suck. It became inconvenient...just drop it off at the pound. Fuck that, and fuck Jean. I imagine Jean, perfectly coifed and put out by her loyal companion. If she felt she should be put down, then she grows a pair and has it done and is there until the end.

I think about having Gaines put down and it hurt like the living fuck but it was the RIGHT ting to do, just as being there with him was the Right fucking thing to do.

Jean's a pussy. Hope her family doesn't toss her in a home and let her die alone.

This is why i often prefer animals to humans. Humans can be sick-hearted cold motherfuckers. Here's a plan for them: don't get a fucking pet, fucking asshole.

[infinite monkey]

I didn't detect 'moral superiority' i detected 'you, jean, are a sucky cunt.'

I see a lot of 'moral superiority' but this ain't that.
good god please don't even get a hamster.

[Happy Monkey]

Originally Posted by Gravdigr

But, she didn't.

It's certainly possible, perhaps likely, that Jean dropped off the dog due to illness rather than living arrangements. But did I miss the part where that was actually confirmed? Was Jean found to still be living in a dogs-allowed location?

[Gravdigr]

Originally Posted by Clodfobble

...the author's moral superiority is tarnished by her bitter complaints about all the expensive food she "had" to buy.

I took that part as sarcasm. Hell, I lose five dollars a day.

Just bought Slick his kitteh fud, btw: ~$20 for a four pound bag.

He's worth every cent. <---Sarcasm. He's worthless.

Also: How long should I cook a sixteen pound cat?

[Gravdigr]

Originally Posted by Happy Monkey

Was Jean found to still be living in a dogs-allowed location?

Unknown.

[infinite monkey]

And irrelevent. If the dog was sick you deal with it. If you 'have to move to a no pet facility' you deal with it. You don't just drop it off and walk away. Jean is a bitch.

[Gravdigr]

If Jean was running for president, I don't think she could count on Infi's vote.

[infinite monkey]

Yeah, sorry again. Harsh and reactive again. I'm a mess. I should probably take a break.

[Aliantha]

Its hard to really know just by one persons perspective. I once had to find a new home for a 10 yr old dog (monty) because my Mum was dying and the dog was a yapper, and in the end it was just too much. There were other issues, but that was the main one.

Some people would judge me harshly for that, but i had to put my Mum first. Judgement or not. I often wonder if i chose the right family for Monty, but at the time i know i probably didnt think about it as much as i should have.

Who knows what can lead a person to give up their family pet. I would think that it wasnt as easy as you might try to believe.

[Lamplighter]

The letter, itself, seems to me to be a bit contrived... designed to trigger an emotional response.

But assuming it could be factual, the ethical culprit here is more likely the pound.

If an ethical rescue organization came upon an old 12 yr (grey mussle) dog
that was already incontinent, and probably had digitally detectable tumors,
experience would have dictated that the animal be put down,
or at least not put up for adoption without disclosure to the adopting family.

Maybe, maybe, maybe... the original owner did not want
to put the dog down, themselves or could not afford it.
Putting the expense on to the rescue organization (pound) would be a bit unethical,
but vets are now charging a great deal of $ to euthanize a dog,
and usually an additional $ to deal with disposal.

All in all, my emotions are not with the author of the letter.

[Aliantha]

Yes, it cost us about $650 to have our Sheba put to sleep a couple of years ago. That is a lot of money,,and the issue with pets is they arent covered by medicare (public health), so i think a lot of people have a lot of trouble when their pet passes or is too old and infirm to get any benefit from further treatment (which was the case with Sheba).