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02-02-2007, 01:21 AM | #1 | |
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Reprinted advice
A kid asked me for some advice when he found out how long my wife and I had been together, on another board. This was my reply.
It is worded strange because I wrote it pretty far into the thread after he asked and repeated a lot of the earlier discussion within my reply so others would understand what was going on when they read it... if that makes any sense. Discuss? Quote:
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02-02-2007, 03:11 AM | #2 |
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Hard to discuss it because you've said it all right there, rk. Excellent advice!
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02-02-2007, 03:21 AM | #3 |
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Thanks for posting that. Since my girlfriend just said she didn't know if she loved me anymore, I wish I could have read this about 3 hours earlier.
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02-02-2007, 10:05 AM | #4 |
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Perhaps it is not too late my friend... or perhaps you are going to do better later on. I hope for the best for you.
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02-02-2007, 02:19 PM | #5 | |
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A continuation of the conversation... this young person is having a hard time. Part of my posting this here is to double-check that I am not messing-up somehow. I want to know if you see anything that may need amending.
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02-02-2007, 06:02 PM | #6 |
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Why ask if you don't want to hear it?
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02-02-2007, 02:38 PM | #8 |
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Perhaps you should only give advice about whatever it is that you are supposed to be an expert on.
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02-02-2007, 02:41 PM | #9 |
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Sure would reduce your posts... I will if you will... would be worth it.
I'm sure a Dr. would tell someone who is depressed & needed meds that they would gain NO help with the meds from talking with someone... yeah-right. |
02-02-2007, 03:01 PM | #10 |
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If you catch me giving out advice about what I don't know about, point it out in the thread where I do it, like I'm doin' for you here. Otherwise, it ain't half useful.
Each person's situation is different. Some will benefit from nothing but talk therapy. Some will benefit best from a combination of meds and talk therapy. And others, such as myself, can be diagnosed (a key word here) with a chronic (another key word) condition which can be helped by medication and not so much, if at all, through talk or other coping methods. One reason I know this is because I tried talk and other coping methods for 20 years, and continued to suffer and suffer; medication solved it in two months and continues to solve it perfectly with no side effects and no HIGHLY expensive talk therapy. And the reason I am a stickler about this is because it might help another person stop suffering sooner than 20 years. |
02-02-2007, 03:08 PM | #11 |
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As I stated in the first post, and I too have been through the system for over twenty years, I disagree with you, and am going to.
I don't believe in a magic mind pill. I, have never stated, specifically, talk therapy. You filled that in on your own. |
02-02-2007, 03:29 PM | #12 |
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You asked what a doctor would say; I have posted what a doctor would say. Is that part of the equation for you or do you get to ignore it?
Simply by using the term "magic mind pill" your bias from willful ignorance is on display. Your spread of such ignorance will cause people to suffer needlessly. Please, don't. |
02-02-2007, 05:51 PM | #13 |
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I asked?
No thanks for the ThreadJack, especially after I asked you not to. You sure have a lot in common with TW. |
02-02-2007, 11:38 PM | #14 |
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02-03-2007, 06:11 AM | #15 | |
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*ROFL* Rob, it makes perfect sense to me. the only thing i would add to the recipe for a good relationship would be honesty and communication.
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