The train wreck....

DucksNuts · 06-16-2008, 05:19 AM

I used to blog about my online and real life dating experiences, and will probably continue to do so, but I would really rather have a little thread here that I can let stuff spew from my mouth and you guys can comment...or not...as you seem fit.

I put the moz on myself with this latest guy, in chat the other day I mentioned how much I liked him and how I had high expectations.....now...nothing!!

At the moment, I'm being really girly and sitting on my hands so I dont do the dumb txt message thing.

I *really* like this guy...like.. really...and have gone into over analysing, self destructive mode.

xoxoxoBruce · 06-16-2008, 10:07 AM

You can let it all hang out here, without repercussions. We'll love you longtime, regardless.

Sundae · 06-16-2008, 10:49 AM

Oh goodie. I can enjoy dating vicariously to prepare me for the real thing!

Aliantha · 06-16-2008, 05:50 PM

Just ring him and suggest a date mate. Don't agonize or wring your hands, and definitely don't do nothing.

One phone call with a suggestion of a meeting is not psycho behaviour, and it's not over the top. It's just an indication of your desire to spend some time with said male.

That's what I think.

DucksNuts · 06-16-2008, 08:13 PM

I'm sitting on my hands....he's been really busy....trains race horses....so I am just waiting and seeing what happens.

He's s'posed to have a couple of days off this week and was going to come over here for them....so....just.waiting.

Oh and I should probably clarify things regarding photographer-dude...he's just really a fuckbuddy...we are the people we sleep with, when we arent sleeping with anyone else.

Anyways, I posted in the other thread the quote from his email to me, he's realised the penthouse chick is a whacker...living in the past....so now he wants to know when he can come...err...banging on my door again.

Funny...I see him in a slightly different light, after he fell for the b/s she was feeding him.

Clodfobble · 06-16-2008, 08:23 PM

Yeah, if you already have plans made with him, I'd say keep those hands nice and squashed. You can wait it out.

jinx · 06-16-2008, 08:30 PM

Which one is the guy you were considering relocating for?

DucksNuts · 06-16-2008, 08:58 PM

Ha.....keep up with my men jinx :p ....he dumped me, see this thread.

See, this will keep up the dumpedness in one thread.

jinx · 06-16-2008, 09:16 PM

Did he have an identifying characteristic though, like photographer guy and army guy? And what are we calling the new guy? Help me out here...

SteveDallas · 06-16-2008, 10:15 PM

How about some charts or diagrams?

skysidhe · 07-13-2008, 02:05 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SteveDallas

How about some charts or diagrams?

Me thinks your sense of humor is under appreciated.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pico and ME

Ducks, the man who is working to keep your attention is the keeper.

not necessarily. It depends on if he is trying to buy her with little tokens or why he is sending flowers. What's his angle.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pico and me

The one who you need to work to get his attention is the loser.

agreed only if it isn't being sought in desperation.

DucksNuts · 06-17-2008, 01:47 AM

He was electrician guy...lets call the new guy Horse guy.

Horse guy txt me before and said he's been super busy....yay!!

Quote:

Originally Posted by SteveDallas

How about some charts or diagrams?

I'm no good at those things.

lookout123 · 06-17-2008, 11:37 AM

Thanks ducks, this will help me to follow it all more accurately. But I'm more of a visual guy, so...

DucksNuts · 06-17-2008, 07:35 PM

I can put a picture of each of their penises...peni...peniseseses in here if that helps you Lookout?

You know I would do anything for you

Madman · 06-24-2008, 03:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DucksNuts

I can put a picture of each of their penises...peni...peniseseses in here if that helps you Lookout?

No, no, no, no, no... please don't!!!

Just the stor... ies (

) please. I don't get a lot of entertainment in my life.

Oh... the kinkier, the better! :p

06-16-2008, 05:19 AM	#1
DucksNuts Bitchy Little Brat Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Queensland, Australia Posts: 5,067	The train wreck.... I used to blog about my online and real life dating experiences, and will probably continue to do so, but I would really rather have a little thread here that I can let stuff spew from my mouth and you guys can comment...or not...as you seem fit. I put the moz on myself with this latest guy, in chat the other day I mentioned how much I liked him and how I had high expectations.....now...nothing!! At the moment, I'm being really girly and sitting on my hands so I dont do the dumb txt message thing. I really like this guy...like.. really...and have gone into over analysing, self destructive mode.

06-16-2008, 10:07 AM	#2
xoxoxoBruce The future is unwritten Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 71,105	You can let it all hang out here, without repercussions. We'll love you longtime, regardless. __________________ The descent of man ~ Nixon, Friedman, Reagan, Trump.

06-16-2008, 10:49 AM	#3
Sundae polaroid of perfection Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: West Yorkshire Posts: 24,185	Oh goodie. I can enjoy dating vicariously to prepare me for the real thing! __________________ Life's hard you know, so strike a pose on a Cadillac

06-16-2008, 05:50 PM	#4
Aliantha trying hard to be a better person Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 16,493	Just ring him and suggest a date mate. Don't agonize or wring your hands, and definitely don't do nothing. One phone call with a suggestion of a meeting is not psycho behaviour, and it's not over the top. It's just an indication of your desire to spend some time with said male. That's what I think. __________________ Kind words are the music of the world. F. W. Faber

06-16-2008, 08:13 PM	#5
DucksNuts Bitchy Little Brat Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Queensland, Australia Posts: 5,067	I'm sitting on my hands....he's been really busy....trains race horses....so I am just waiting and seeing what happens. He's s'posed to have a couple of days off this week and was going to come over here for them....so....just.waiting. Oh and I should probably clarify things regarding photographer-dude...he's just really a fuckbuddy...we are the people we sleep with, when we arent sleeping with anyone else. Anyways, I posted in the other thread the quote from his email to me, he's realised the penthouse chick is a whacker...living in the past....so now he wants to know when he can come...err...banging on my door again. Funny...I see him in a slightly different light, after he fell for the b/s she was feeding him. Last edited by DucksNuts; 06-16-2008 at 08:26 PM.

06-16-2008, 08:23 PM	#6
Clodfobble UNDER CONDITIONAL MITIGATION Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Austin, TX Posts: 20,012	Yeah, if you already have plans made with him, I'd say keep those hands nice and squashed. You can wait it out.

06-16-2008, 08:30 PM	#7
jinx Come on, cat. Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: general vicinity of Philadelphia area Posts: 7,013	Which one is the guy you were considering relocating for? __________________ Crying won't help you, praying won't do you no good.

06-16-2008, 08:58 PM	#8
DucksNuts Bitchy Little Brat Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Queensland, Australia Posts: 5,067	Ha.....keep up with my men jinx :p ....he dumped me, see this thread. See, this will keep up the dumpedness in one thread.

06-16-2008, 09:16 PM	#9
jinx Come on, cat. Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: general vicinity of Philadelphia area Posts: 7,013	Did he have an identifying characteristic though, like photographer guy and army guy? And what are we calling the new guy? Help me out here... __________________ Crying won't help you, praying won't do you no good.

06-16-2008, 10:15 PM	#10
SteveDallas Your Bartender Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Philly Burbs, PA Posts: 7,651	How about some charts or diagrams?

06-17-2008, 11:37 AM	#13
lookout123 changed his status to single Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Right behind you. No, the other side. Posts: 10,308	Thanks ducks, this will help me to follow it all more accurately. But I'm more of a visual guy, so... __________________ Getting knocked down is no sin, it's not getting back up that's the sin

06-17-2008, 07:35 PM	#14
DucksNuts Bitchy Little Brat Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Queensland, Australia Posts: 5,067	I can put a picture of each of their penises...peni...peniseseses in here if that helps you Lookout? You know I would do anything for you

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