Free debate at NCC on Same-Sex Marriage - Do We Need a Federal Marriage Amendment?

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The following event will be at the Constitution Center. It's labelled as free.

Same-Sex Marriage - Do We Need a Federal Marriage Amendment?

Join panelists Judge Robert H. Bork, one of the authors of the Federal Marriage Amendment; Gary Bauer of American Family Values; Yale law professor William Eskridge, and other national experts for a panel discussion and moderated debate about the constitutionality of same-sex marriage. The program, moderated by NCC President and CEO Richard Stengel, will give audience members the opportunity to ask questions and debate the issues with the panelists.

A cash bar will be available from 6:00 - 6:30 P.M.

Annenberg Center for Education and Outreach
Kirby Auditorium
Admission is free.
Call 215-409-6700 for reservations.

Event Details

[Lady Sidhe]

Why don't they just let whomever wants to get married, get married? I don't see why there's such a big to-do. If two people love each other and want to spend the rest of their lives together, as well as get the benifits of being married, it's nobody else's business.

Sidhe

[Troubleshooter]

Originally posted by Lady Sidhe
Why don't they just let whomever wants to get married, get married? <snip>

Sidhe

Because people are stupid and can't think around their religious hindrances.

[Slartibartfast]

Originally posted by Lady Sidhe
Why don't they just let whomever wants to get married, get married? I don't see why there's such a big to-do. If two people love each other and want to spend the rest of their lives together, as well as get the benifits of being married, it's nobody else's business.

Sidhe

...and a corrolary that follows is that if three or four consenting adults want to 'marry' all the others in the group, they should be free to do so also. If someone wants to marry an uncle and/or a sister, its nobody else's business, they're consenting adults. If they want to marry a doorknob, that's fine too. Pets can't consent so that's out.

[Troubleshooter]

Originally posted by Slartibartfast


...and a corrolary that follows is that if three or four consenting adults want to 'marry' all the others in the group, they should be free to do so also. If someone wants to marry an uncle and/or a sister, its nobody else's business, they're consenting adults. If they want to marry a doorknob, that's fine too. Pets can't consent so that's out.

As long as there is no governmental benefit, involvement or regulation then more power to them.

Whatever civil contracts they wish to involve themselves in is there business.

Marriage is a religious status and using my taxes to regulate it is problematic at best.

[Lady Sidhe]

Originally posted by Slartibartfast


...and a corrolary that follows is that if three or four consenting adults want to 'marry' all the others in the group, they should be free to do so also. If someone wants to marry an uncle and/or a sister, its nobody else's business, they're consenting adults. If they want to marry a doorknob, that's fine too. Pets can't consent so that's out.

Jesus....are you really THAT literal?

No, that is not a valid corrolary. The issue is GAY marriage. Not marriage to relatives, pets, or more than one person (if you want to do that, become a Mormon). :p

You can't marry a doorknob or any other inanimate object, because it can't consent

Besides, we can't marry relatives because then we'd have to worry about rights for two-headed children with gills --at least the ones who survived, anyway.


Sidhe

[Slartibartfast]

Imagine a nasty four-way divorce with a house and two children in the middle .

[Slartibartfast]

___LS

Jesus....are you really THAT literal?

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No, but I like to carry arguments to absurd limits.

___LS

No, that is not a valid corrolary. The issue is GAY marriage. Not marriage to relatives, pets, or more than one person (if you want to do that, become a Mormon). :p

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By altering the marriage law from being exclusively for one man and one woman into something else, you are saying that whatever reason exists behind that law is invalid. This is no small change.

If we are talking about changing definitions, once you allow that the change is possible, you have to ask how far the change should go.

Troubleshooter has a good approach. Maybe government has no place setting marriage laws at all. Maybe people should write up their own nuptial agreements that detail exactly what the partnership will entail for all inolved parties.


____LS

You can't marry a doorknob or any other inanimate object, because it can't consent

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But it doesn't have to consent, it's inanimate and has no opinion either way.
Okay, I was being silly.

____LS

Besides, we can't marry relatives because then we'd have to worry about rights for two-headed children with gills --at least the ones who survived, anyway.

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but they are consenting adults... would you stop two non-related adults that have serious genetic defects from trying to have children? How is this different? And again, I'm being intentionally obtuse, but there is a point floating around here somewhere.

[Troubleshooter]

Originally posted by Slartibartfast
No, but I like to carry arguments to absurd limits.

Sometimes that is all the fun that is to be had with some topics...

Originally posted by Slartibartfast
Troubleshooter has a good approach. Maybe government has no place setting marriage laws at all. Maybe people should write up their own nuptial agreements that detail exactly what the partnership will entail for all inolved parties.

The gov't does have a stake in how people choose to partner themselves, but the religious standard isn't the one to go by anymore.

Maybe if someone came up with a new religion.

Originally posted by Slartibartfast
but they are consenting adults... would you stop two non-related adults that have serious genetic defects from trying to have children? How is this different? And again, I'm being intentionally obtuse, but there is a point floating around here somewhere.

I do have a concern with genetic defectives breeding. That being said, I don't know what to do about it though. From the strictly species-centric viewpoint it's bad, very bad. It's reintroducing weakness into the genepool. From the humanity standpoint it's still bad but to stop them would arguably infringe upon their liberties.

Edit: forgot to reply to the third not-point

[Lady Sidhe]

"By altering the marriage law from being exclusively for one man and one woman into something else, you are saying that whatever reason exists behind that law is invalid. "


I'm curious....I've looked, but I can't find anything that specifically says that marriage MUST consist of one male and one female. Maybe I'm not looking in the right place, or maybe it's just an assumption that's been around for so long that it's not questioned. If anyone can find where it says "marriage is only to be between a man and a woman," or something similar, please direct me to it, because this assumption is one of the problems I have with this whole to-do.


Secondly, people seem to forget that there's a separation of church and state for a reason. Religion has no place in politics, and it is religion that inspires the "anti-gay" opinion.

If the church doesn't want to let them get married, there's no reason that Domestic Unions shouldn't be allowed. Get a JP and do the deed. People need to attend to their own business and let others attend to theirs. They're not hurting anyone, so what's the problem?


And there is a limit to how close genetically we can marry because of the possible genetic results. That's a valid reason. Just because you don't like someone's sexual preference is NOT a valid reason.


And as far as multiple marriage, I see it the same way that I see open marriages: What's the point? Why be forced to support these extra wives, or husbands, and children, if all you want to do is sleep with more than one person? Just DO it. There's no point in getting married.


Sidhe

[Troubleshooter]

Originally posted by Lady Sidhe
And as far as multiple marriage, I see it the same way that I see open marriages: What's the point? Why be forced to support these extra wives, or husbands, and children, if all you want to do is sleep with more than one person? Just DO it. There's no point in getting married.


Sidhe

That's because you're stuck on the judeo-christian concept of marriage. Multiple marriage exists around the world, and is stable and productive.

[Happy Monkey]

Is there a place where multiple marriage isn't paired with patriarchy and female subjugation?

I think it definitely doesn't have to be, but I'm just curious if there are any positive examples.

[jaguar]

Why don't they just let whomever wants to get married, get married? I don't see why there's such a big to-do. If two people love each other and want to spend the rest of their lives together, as well as get the benifits of being married, it's nobody else's business.

'zactly.
Course the only reason I can ever see myself getting married is tax reasons.

[ladysycamore]

Originally posted by Lady Sidhe
Why don't they just let whomever wants to get married, get married? I don't see why there's such a big to-do. If two people love each other and want to spend the rest of their lives together, as well as get the benifits of being married, it's nobody else's business.

Sidhe

Yeah...what she said!

[Lady Sidhe]

Originally posted by Troubleshooter


That's because you're stuck on the judeo-christian concept of marriage. Multiple marriage exists around the world, and is stable and productive.

No, I'm not stuck on the judeo-christian concept of marriage. You know better. It's much simpler than that. I'm straight-up jealous. I don't share.


Sidhe