Kindness, Charity, Giving... Whatever

What is your favorite way.
What this is not about is a jack-off about altruism, churches/the Red Cross/Salvation Army being bad or good at doing their shit, "they" are just going to spend it on drugs, etc, etc, etc... fuck-off and start your own bitchy thread.
Mod, I'm asking you to delete that OT negative shit.
Not what this is about. This is about gettin' your give on...
So, how do you do it, why (fo' real), tell your, or other's stories and discuss it over-all.
I'm not doing so hot today, sorry, so I'll type mine later.
I will say that one of the things I hate most (I rarely use that word) about being sick is that I can no longer give and do for others like I used to. It being an enormous part of my life, even having a charity of my own at one time.