Judgement aside - The scary part Undertoad - is that the way you've expressed in the past a childhood of looking to see how your mom feels first - is a dynamic I could easily see developing. He developed very early on an extreme sensitivity to the emotional tapestry around him, and she has a very strong tendency to assert for others how they feel. It would be a very likely way for her to negotiate his emotions for the time after I left, probably establishing that dynamic as a direct result.
On the other hand, it's been 4 years for her as well. Maybe... I don't know.
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