[Ibby]

molly, you are NOT being kind. you are being self-centered, confrontational, belligerent, and entitled.
Take my advice. read some more threads. Learn some peoples' names and personalities. make some FRIENDS here, instead of plopping down in the middle of everything and expecting some kind of special treatment.
This isn't that kind of forum. This is a community. We often use the metaphor of a pub or a coffeeshop, the Cheers kind where everybody knows your name. We're almost all "regulars" here. we know eachother, we know how we get along, we know we each have our interests and our modes of communication. we are, again, a COMMUNITY. you're the loud newcomer bursting in and hollering and carrying on wanting attention and expecting us all to treat you like a martyr, not like a loudmouth.