Funny - I just did the opposite of this. After being on a site for years with bad or no luck, I just deactivated my account.
I decided to say Fuck It and just go with the flow. I got other things in my life that I want to put attention to. Yea, I am lonely, but I am trying to work out again, possibly moving within a year, possibly not gonna have a job soon and I swear, I couldn't pay one of the guys I find attractive to message me back, no matter what I tried.
I hope it works out better for you! Give us an update