I think it'd be fair enough to point to her record in this. Not in a judgemental way, but just that right now, where she is in her life, she can't truly promise it won;t come back to bite you. At a time in your life where you need defences against sudden financial need. not a new way for your finances to potentially get fucked up. Unlike the last time you stood as guarantor, you really can't promise to be able to honour that now.
[eta] Is that a standard thing for them to need over there? Or is there wriggle room? I mean, if they continued looking could they find somewhere that doesn't require two guarantors? If they saved up some money and approached with an offer of a larger deposit instead maybe?
Last edited by DanaC; 05-16-2013 at 06:06 AM.
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