oh, umm, certainly I am not going to run with advice ...well, really, from anyone
I was more trying to make a public gage for perspective
I mean, he's a great guy, and I'm not going fishing elsewhere blah blah blah
But among a forum of strangers while I would never ask for direct advice (ie, what should I do) I would ask for generalized "what would you do, what is your reaction, what has been your experience"
I am realizing now I should have not added the personal context and just asked a vaguer question.
but also, useful response, thank you
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