[Mockingbird]

Well, since you got the it as a gift, no harm no foul, but I don't think it will help you any. As a guy, I don't want to be 'caught' or 'kept', I'd rather be 'found' then 'given adequate reason to stay in a happy and productive relationship'.

I hate using flash judgment but usually reading something that is WRITTEN like this, talking about how it's going to CHANGE my life, ... makes me a little suspicious.

That said, I think you might be able to get better advice from actual men right here, if you want to know what guys are thinking.

Women who run with the wolves is an excellent book, though. I read that a few years ago (sensitive male, shaddup) and it has a lot of great stuff in it. You'll end up reading it, re-reading it and passing it on to everyone you know. You might want to save yourself some time and just buy an extra copy.