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Old 03-15-2004, 01:12 PM   #114
ladysycamore
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Originally posted by jinx


Why would you assume that parents aren't questioned just as hard? Just because you don't experience it?
No, because I highly doubt that they are.

Childfree person: "I don't want kids."
Other: "But why? Don't you want to continue your bloodline? Don't you want to give your parents grandchildren? Isn't that being selfish?"
*although in my case, I've usually gotten, "I don't blame ya!" or "Good...don't!", but I don't like hearing others getting questioned like that.*


Person who wants kids: "I want (insert number) of kids."
Other: (goes into a conversation about how they want kids too, etc., and not "Why?").

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Putting your child in harms way is incredibly subjective. What you may see as harm (not vaccinating your kids) others see as protection.
But are you going to be committing a crime if you choose not to vaccinate your kids? You chose not vaccinate your kids, right? You're not in jail, so...where's the crime?

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What you may not see as harm (giving kids soda and McGarbage) other would.
Again, not a crime (although, not good common sense either).

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Because one doesn't have as much faith in obstetrics as others, they are questioned. But they shouldn't be prosecuted.
Sorry, I just feel there's a certain responsibilty once one finds out they are pregnant to put the child/fetus/zygote's welfare above their own. Never mind that the C-Section is going to leave a scar!
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