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Emotions don't work like band-aids, but somewhere along the line I got it in my head that if I went ahead and fucked-it-all-up now, I could get all the pain over with, quick-like.
But, I'm stupid, and just ended-up hurting all the time, along with a lot of others along the way.
I'm not saying that is what you are doing, not at all... but I am saying that you are doing something before you are thinking, and someone who loves you may be able to catch some of the signs before you do...
Deal is, you are going to have to trust them and not be defensive when they call your ass on it
No damn fun... I still hate it, and it has been a while. It does get easier though, and I promise you, it is worth it.
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