It sounds like you want him to leave for a bad reason in case someday he leaves for a reason closer to reality. If thats the case, I think you can beat this thing if you embrace that knowlege and just convince yourself that you are tough enough to handle whatever comes. I used to work a variation on this, obsessing on the doors that close with a long term comittment instead of looking at the positives. ymmv
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If you would only recognize that life is hard, things would be so much easier for you.
- Louis D. Brandeis
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