Toad,
As I say: don't believe everything you read or hear, take it all with more than a grain of salt, be the gatekeeper of your head.
If you don't, if you rely on others to be honest, then -- baby -- you'll be screwed up one side and down the other.
The unfortunate thing: a great many folks can't (or, have been taught to not) gate-keep their own heads. Fodder, is what they are.
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