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I upsets you because you care about these kids. You've been around the block and know right well the alley they're in is a dead end.
At least the girl has a valid goal, if she does the work. I hear that it's not unusual for kids to change direction in college, so she's likely to change her mind before she gets through college.
The boy is a man. A man not likely to get his shit together if he doesn't have to. You have to make sure he has to, which means laying down the law, pay rent or GTFO.
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The descent of man ~ Nixon, Friedman, Reagan, Trump.
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