I honestly wish you and LabRat the best, and hope you both come back someday when you are ready.
I also hope you both view this incident as a challenge to overcome rather than an excuse to throw everything away. You appear to be willing to jump into a fight over this incident. I don't know if you are fighting for yourself, or fighting for LabRat, or fighting for the relationship. But I hope for your family you work through it with her.
Good luck.
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