OK, maybe I'm ready to talk a little. Maybe one of the hardest and easiest things is he just doesn't look sick. No-one knows unless we tell them. His doctor is kind of flabbergasted by this. He said when we met he expected him to be in a wheelchair after seeing the images. he still says he doesn't look sick and he is surprised every time. he also said he shouldn't play paintball anymore because he has to take blood thinners and the welts might be risky.
...so here he is a couple of weekends ago, all set to play with his team in Indiana, 'cept for the small matter of the chemo pump still attached and running in that sexy black fanny pack. Chemo infusion actually lasts 2.5 days -first 8 hours at the hospital then home with the pack. Once it finished, he removed it, taped the armor we made from the bottom of a coke can over his port and entered the fray
