[DanaC]

So I learned to stop dwelling on it. As soon as a thought came to mind, I turned it off. I refused to let it blossom into a full-fledged pity party (well, mostly). I became very selfishly self-indulgent. I do what I can to put a little joy in my life...mostly watch tv shows and movies, kill (lots) time on the computer, and catch up on my reading. It works for me.

I can relate to this.